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Thursday, July 02, 2009, 10:45:00 PM
the issue about give and takewhat is give? and what is take? an english idiot here is trying to explain for some reasons. as she realises, she's giving more than taking from a specific friend, and she's getting tired of it TOTALLY.
give. can be in forms of caring, helping, initiating, etc. you do it with good intentions for peers. you spend time "giving" your friend. what you merely expect? a "thankyou" at least yeah? when you dont get that small little "thankyou", how would you feel? to me, i feel that this friend is taking me for granted and thinking i'm all out to help her/him. i will feel hurt at times too. is just like basic courtesy to say a "thankyou". just like when you do something wrong you say "sorry" "giving" can make yourself happy as you helped someone in need. however, giving too much isn't good as you slowly spend lesser time caring for yourself. and if met this kind of people who doesn't say "thankyou" is does not make you happy, worse make you feel sad
take. can be in forms of receiving gifts, help, care, etc. you are being cared for. sometimes, you asked to be "take". for example, you seek help from your friends in studies. it is natural for one to "take" as we aren't perfect and we can't do all the things ourselves. hence, "taking" is evitable. how to "repay" the people who helped us? most importantly, a "thankyou" to prove to the person that he/she did not help for nothing. "thankyou" is really powerful word/are really powerful words that people liked alot. i like that word alot myself, to say the truth. to "repay" the person, you should also "give" them something. "give" as in helping. when they need help, don't stop to think, just simply try your best to help. it is rude to ignore as you sort of "indebt" with the person. if you cant seem to help, ask others to help. for example myself, i sometimes ask seniors about studies. i feel extremely guilty as i cant help them in THEIR studies obviously, so sadly all i can do is just "THANKYOU!THANKYOU!THANKYOU!" but at least i appreciate their kindness alot alot.
it just tires me out when i kept on helping someone and when i seek help from them, they just treat me as nothing. is just make me feel so pissed. argh. have been pissed for like 2 hours -.- oh man. im sleeping late again. im like so pissed. pissed. pissed. and thanks to this friend, i think i will be crying myself to sleep later.
complaining to low is so fun! :D
`posted by: yeo!